Some things...
After coming a long way and meeting lots of people and coming back to my senses, I was able to make some things clear with myself and my expectations towards men.... (Thanks to a quite long single-status)
The type of man that I hate the most is the Player, not just the one who cheats consciously/repeatedly on his girlfriend which he claims to "love" but also the idiotic moron that will just attempt a pass at any random girl. Meets them once, then booms decides that they should spend time together, all in the single goal of doing them and throw them away the right next morning. I saw and met too many of those and honestly I am frankly disgusted. I also include in that categories, all those creepos that add random girls on Facebook, MSN, whatever just to get some human affection. How much more desperate can you be?
The other type I hate the most is the "unconditional" one. I give you everything so please stay with me for ever. I can't stand those. Love is like a game and if you get everything you want at a game, what happens? You get bored and you choose one that's more challenging. I cannot stand men who can't say no, who run around for you everywhere, pretend to be busy but then end up waiting for you at a random metro station for hours (don't laugh, I knew one that was like that). In other terms, I cannot stand a man who's not busy and centers their life around their girlfriend, hence me. Find something to do, I don't know, work towards your future, study for god's sake. But don't wait around your phone constantly. Oh yeah, I include that type in this category, the type that texts you every moment even you tell them you're in class and you don't have time. I mean, if the girl returns it to you and she's happy about it, sure go ahead. But I think most of the guys that I have met and included in this category are just unable of such simple reasoning, and honestly, it's scary. Scary for the people they're gonna meet later, I mean.
There, having described what I don't want, the question remains: What is it that I want?
I, too, would like to know.
1 Comments:
I agree!
You know my opinion on players and cheaters ;)
I can't stand a man who's always after me tho... I feel like I'm almost being stalked by my mom boyfriend! I'm the kind of girl who needs her space and her independance, even in a relationship. That's something a lot of girls are missing =S
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